Last Updated on: 31st October 2022, 10:51 am
My Cardinal Rules
As I continued my career, I made many mistakes and learned from them at the same time. To this day I still make mistakes. That is, as they say, the way of life. I began to compile a list of rules for myself that I would abide by. Rules that would carry me through each day and not only keep me safe but also keep my daily life drama free and stressless.
Rule No. One: Never do anything for free.
There were times when I believed that I could seduce someone into paying for services if I gave them a free blowjob. This turned out to be a very poor business decision and one which I have since ceased doing. There were around ten guys who I tried this with, and I only ever saw one of them again who paid me for my time. A success rate of 1/10 is just not worth it.
Rule No. Two: Do not date a client
The harsh reality is that I have no interest in dating. Even so, many clients become attached after the transaction of paid-for sex is complete. To this day I still have clients who believe that I am in some sort of relationship with them, asking me to go for dinner or to events. When I remind them of my hourly rate they try and give a pity story on how they thought that we were something. This is one of my most precious rules which is why I have only ever broken it once.
Rule No. Three: No animal play ever
This one I think speaks for itself. There are many different types of people in Second Life and part of the magic of the world is that people can be and do anything that they wish to do. I have my limits and one of those is animal play. Regardless of what money is on offer, I never have and never will fuck a dog or a cat or any other animal.
Rule No. Four: Always take money upfront
As obvious as this one sounds, I was very naive at the beginning and made this fatal error just once. A client took me back to their house and started masturbating on a sofa in front of me and asked me to join. I reminded him about the payment and he told me not to ruin the moment and that he would pay me after. I believed him. He came and he vanished never to be seen again.
Rule No. Five: Always keep control
Any escort should always be in control of the situation at all times. It’s ok to let the client believe that they have control if that is their fantasy but the time and what happens remain firmly under my control.
Rule No. Six: Always listen to the client
Most people believe that escorting is purely sexual but that’s not the case at all. Yes, the majority of my work involves sex but many times there are other services that are provided. Some clients just want to talk or go to a park. My job is to provide them with the best service that they are buying and so listening and asking questions when needed is a must. Never let a client think that you are closed off from them, take an interest during your time together.
Rule No. Seven: Be honest about limitations
Everyone has limitations no matter who they are. I am no different, I have my no animal play rule but I also have the most common limitations such as child play, age play, scat or breath play. Something that I live by is to always be honest about limitations before accepting a client, if I have to turn down money then that’s what I have to do.
Rule No. Eight: Don’t negotiate
This rule goes hand in hand with the “Don’t do anything for free” rule. My time is my time and only I know how much that is worth. If a client can’t afford the time then I am more than happy to point them in a direction that may be more suited to them. Never negotiate your price because that is all that will ever be expected.
Rule No. Nine: Always be thankful
No matter if the experience is a good one or a bad one, always be thankful to the client. They have chosen to spend their hard-earned money on buying my time. For that, I am always grateful and I promised myself to always make that known.
Rule No. Ten: Have fun
Out of all of my rules, this is my most important one. If I’m not having fun then that is a huge problem. Eventually, I told myself to stop trying to be a perfectionist and just start enjoying it, once I did that everything changed for the better.
The Job Of My Dreams
Hooker Hotel was working out in my favour. I had a regular string of clients and a very solid income. My confidence levels were rapidly growing and I felt happy about what I was doing.
I was having fun and I was having a lot of it.
In the Hooker Hotel region, there was a small sex outlet, I would see it every day and every time I looked at it I tried to pluck up some courage.
The outlet was owned by Takeda Media, owners of Second Life Adventures.
I wanted to work at Candy’s All-Inclusive Sex Hotel since the moment I read about it, it was where I felt destined to end up.
My biggest hurdle was that I just didn’t feel good enough to go there and apply.
“I was so infatuated with their stories that I didn’t know if I would ever be good enough“
I was so nervous about it that I wouldn’t even visit the hotel just for a look around. To me, those characters and that hotel were something larger than life, I was so infatuated with their stories that I didn’t know if I would ever be good enough to even pass by.
One morning after an early shift at Hooker Hotel I decided to visit the hotel to look around.
It was extremely early, around 6 am and so in my mind, nobody would be at the hotel. I could get in, look around, stand in awe at what I was seeing and then leave.
At least that was my plan, of course, life has a way of ruining your plans even in unimaginable ways.
Perhaps it was the excitement of finally choosing to visit the hotel, perhaps it was just a rush of creativity but on that same morning I pressed publish on my very first blog post titled “The Start Of My Second Life Journey”.
“Behind the bar stood Candy and my over-excited mind just could not handle being so close“
With my first post now published I nervously hopped in my taxi to Candy’s All-Inclusive Sex Hotel.
When I arrived at the hotel I was in shock. Behind the bar stood Candy and my over-excited mind just could not handle being so close to someone who was such an inspiration to me.
To this day I tell her that I didn’t realise she was there but I did. I just chose to make my way into the small sex outlet next to the bar to avoid looking stupid and making a quick getaway.
I thought that if I spend a minute or two looking through the products then I could just leave, my dignity remaining intact.
I shakily stood there as I scanned my way through the Debauchery furniture, hoping that my body language would be that of someone just looking around while the whole time my brain was a quivering wreck.
Suddenly I heard the familiar sound of an IM being received, I looked down and there it was a new message… from Candy.
“I could feel myself relaxing more“
I can’t describe the exact emotions that ran through my head at that moment.
Over the months I have told this story numerous times, even joking about it to Candy herself. All I remember is that I stared at the message for what felt like an eternity before sending back what must have been an incomprehensible reply of me overflowing with excitement and how I was just taking a look around.
I was then asked if I would like to join her at the bar and there was a huge part of me that wanted to just run away but I said yes and sat at her bar, in her hotel and spoke with her.
We spoke about her website and her stories, she shared memories of older times and she asked about me. I could feel myself relaxing more the more we spoke.
Candy has a very strong personality about her but also makes you feel so at ease. Almost like you’ve known each other for the longest time.
Of course, I felt like I did know her after following all of her adventures. She was after all the reason that I was even here to begin with.
I remember I admitted how nervous I was about even visiting the hotel and that one day I planned on applying, I just didn’t feel good enough yet.
We spoke some more before she suddenly offered me a job. It was one of those very surreal moments in life. Imagine you spend your life idolising Nicki Minaj and one day you go backstage at one of her shows, only to be asked to sing on to her next album.
It felt like the same principle. There were so many questions that started to run through my mind. Was I good enough? Could I even do this?
Was I going to disappoint the person I looked up to?
“Trainee to Sex Waitress within 24 hours.“
I remembered back to my first few weeks on the grid trying to find myself. Thinking back to how terrible things had been and how awkward I had felt.
Reminding myself that this was always my goal, this is where I wanted to end up and I was willing to work hard to get here. Sometimes things in life happen because that is just what is supposed to happen.
I could have gone to the hotel at any time on any day but I chose this day for whatever reason. This was meant to be.
I accepted the offer of a job.
There were a few rules that I had to follow but they were simple enough.
Starting as a trainee I was told that I could progress to being a full waitress once I had sold a membership to two new members. That didn’t seem too hard to achieve but in the months since I was hired I have seen so many trainees still keep their position as a trainee even after weeks or even months of work.
I managed to get two new members within 12 hours, and the very next day I was promoted to Sex Waitress.
The part of me that wanted to always be the best was determined to still be the best especially if I was working at Candy’s All-Inclusive Sex Hotel.
Trainee to Sex Waitress within 24 hours, I believe that I may be the first person to have achieved that. If anyone else has then I would imagine it would be Christina but we have never had that conversation.
“I remained hopeful that this would be everything I had dreamed of“
My very first guest at the hotel was horrible.
When I wrote about it on my blog I was trying to make an impression. However, from the moment that post went out I found myself being much more candid and open in my posts. I fabricated my enjoyment of one story, it felt wrong to do it anymore.
I could have changed the original post to an honest depiction of what happened but it feels like a pointless exercise.
My first guest was an old man, and while those are normally some of the best clients, this one was not. He took far too long, was extremely rough to the point where it just didn’t feel sexual and once it was all over he sent me a real picture of his real wrinkly cock.
Telling me that he would come back the next day and the day after and every day until he got me pregnant.
After all of that, he didn’t even leave a tip. I suddenly had my reservations about working here but thankfully I stuck with it.
I had the job I always wanted to have and whilst my first experience was not the best, I remained hopeful that this would be everything I had dreamed of.
For the rest of the day I worked on getting my two new members to sign up, I stayed at the hotel bar for hours and worked as hard as I could.
In my mind, there was also the knowledge that working here would provide me with some content to write about.
I had published my first post, hopefully, this job would allow me to have something to write about every week.
At the time the original idea was to have a weekly posting schedule, I didn’t think I would get enough content to post on an almost daily basis but that is how it ended up being.
“It was at Candy’s All-Inclusive Sex Hotel that I first broke one of my cardinal rules“
My first few days working at Candy’s were interesting, it wasn’t quite as busy as I expected it to be but it was fun and it bolstered my income.
Over time I have seen the hotel grow into a hub of activity, I like to think that I contributed even just a little to that.
Aside from my first guest, the rest were a pleasure to spend my time with. We would have drinks at the bar and either head to a room or to the spa where the real work would take place.
It was at Candy’s All-Inclusive Sex Hotel that I first broke one of my cardinal rules. I abide by those rules as firmly as I possibly can, they are there to guard me and to make my time enjoyable.
However, sometimes events happen and things take place that without any pre-anticipation result in a rule being broken.
It was at Candy’s All-Inclusive Sex Hotel that I first met Mr C.
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