Frequently Asked Questions | Let’s Talk

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Frequently Asked Questions | Let’s Talk

I get a staggering number of IMs every week (literally hundreds)—so many that keeping up can feel like a full-time job on its own. They range from thank-yous for my blog, to inquiries from clients, to, well… the people who feel the need to let me know they’re jerking off to my pics. It’s a little hot, maybe a little flattering, but please, you don’t have to tell me every time you do it. (Although, full disclosure: I do find it hot when you send me cum tribute pics.)

That said, I do my best to reply to everyone. Sometimes, though, it takes me a few days to respond. So, to make things easier for everyone, I’ve put together this FAQ. Think of it as a one-stop shop for the questions I’m asked the most. If you find the answer here, great! If not, IM me, and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can.

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The Basics

Are You Real?

Yes, I’m very real. Unless we’re in the matrix, but that’s a whole other story. Let’s not get into that because my brain isn’t ready to handle those implications.

Why Do You Always Call People Cunts?

Because they are.

Do All Your Stories Actually Happen?

Yes! Everything you read here really happened to me. I might embellish small details to make the story more engaging. For example, instead of saying, “I switched chat windows,” I might say, “I read his text, put my phone away, and smiled.” These touches make the story more immersive, as Second Life doesn’t do physical things like real life.

Can I Be in a Blog Post?

Ha! This is a popular one. Yes, you can, but not through planning. Everything I write about happens naturally. If something fun or interesting happens, it builds its own story. So, if you want to be in a blog post, be interesting and make something worth writing about.

Why Do You Take So Long to Reply to Me?

See the top of this page. It might sound like I’m bragging about how many IMs I get, but trust me, I’m not. This FAQ exists because I’m just one person, and it’s impossible to keep up at a lightning-fast pace while, you know, living a fucking life.

What Businesses Do You Own?

Ok, here’s the full list of businesses I own. It’s a lot, so buckle up:

  • X-Sisters Brand
    • X-Sisters Sex Bar
    • X-Girl Monthly Magazine
    • X-Sisters Store and Marketplace
    • X-Sisters Sex Motel
    • X-Sisters Sex Apartments
    • Collar & Cocktail BDSM Bar
    • The Loft GFE Bar
  • Street Whores
  • The Fuck Forest
  • Venusia Magna Roman Roleplay Sim
  • Ascendancy Misandry Sim
  • Lovelink SL Dating
  • Mel & Aria’s Drug Store
  • Jess X Gallery

I also do a ton of scripting and creating. One of my most notable products is the Mel & Aria’s Drug System, which ties into the drug store. I also have a number of parcels and houses available for rent and a number of tenants to deal with. On top of that, I sell adboards and other gadgets for Second Life users.

So yeah, I’m pretty fucking busy.

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Escorting Questions

Are You Available to Hire Right Now?

No. That’s the short answer. Yes, I’m available to hire, but my Second Life is ridiculously busy—non-stop, 24/7, 365. Unless I’m actively working a shift at X-Sisters Sex Bar or Street Whores, the chances of me being available for an immediate hire are slim to none.

That said, you can book me in advance. Use my booking form to secure a time, and I’ll get back to you when I’m available.

Do You Ever Have Free Sex?

Occasionally. Very rarely. And only if it meets one major condition: it has to be worth it for blog content.

Content that drives traffic to my site also drives revenue for my sponsors and affiliates, which means I make money regardless. If something has the potential to make for compelling blog material, I might consider it. Not promise, not guarantee—just consider.

Can I Invite You to My House?

In a perfect world with 60-hour days, I’d accept every invite. But time is tight. I’m always busy, working on something, running my bar, or managing my businesses. So, I have to say no to personal invites, which I hate. However, you can always book through this site or visit the X-Sisters Sex Bar.

Did You Really Turn Second Life Escorting into a Career?

That’s a bit complex. Escorting in Second Life is a big part of my income. From escorting alone, I make around 150,000L a week, which is about $550. After fees and conversion rates, it’s less but still substantial. However, it’s not just escorting—I also earn from this blog, other ventures in Second Life, and various websites. So yes, but it’s part of a broader income strategy.

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Business Questions

Why Am I Banned From One of Your Sims?

Probably because you’re a fucking moron. If you can’t follow simple rules, I don’t have any sympathy for you.

That said, most ban decisions are handled by the sim’s management team. I rarely get involved. If you want to appeal your ban, reach out to the team directly. If you’re absolutely sure your ban was a mistake, I’ll take a look.

But let me be crystal clear—if you were banned because you broke a rule and your excuse is “I didn’t know it was a rule,” save yourself the effort. Buy some glasses, learn to read, and stop wasting everyone’s time.

Do You Have a Minute to Talk About One of Your Sims?

If it’s about one of my sims, your first stop should always be a member of management. They have full autonomy to handle most decisions. The only time I need to step in is for major changes, like updating the sim’s look or financial decisions. For everything else, management is who you need to talk to.

Why Do I Keep Getting Ejected Because My Account Age Is Too Young/No Payment Info?

I get it—the age restriction can be frustrating. For a long time, I was completely against it. I’ve always been an advocate for welcoming everyone, especially newcomers, and I still am. You’re always welcome to reach out if you see me.

But here’s the harsh reality: too many people create alts just to troll when they don’t get their way. It’s exhausting and unfair to my staff, who have to deal with the harassment. To protect them, we implemented the age detectors.

Having payment information on file lets us know that you’re over 18. This is important for us to keep a safe environment and we can’t make exceptions to that.

If your account is too new or you have no payment info, you’ll be ejected—it’s not personal, it’s just necessary.

Would You Be Interested in a Business Partner?

No. I’ve been down that road before. Lumi was my sister and best friend, and being business partners still went horribly wrong. I’ve put an incredible amount of time and energy into building my businesses, and I’m proud of what I’ve created.

At this point, I have no interest in bringing on a partner again.

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Other Questions

Can I Be Your Submissive or Slave?

No. I already have one, and he’s locked in a cage 24/7. I don’t need another.

Uhm Jess, I’m One of Your Managers. Why Are You Ignoring Me?

Because I thought it would be funny as fuck to make you read this too.

Are you a good girl?

LOL. Let’s clear this up. If you’ve ever IM’d me this—or anything remotely similar—you’re not just a fucking idiot, you’ve also clearly failed at reading profiles. No, I’m not a “good girl.” I don’t have a submissive bone in my body.

For the most part, I’m a Misandrist. It’s why I opened a Misandry sim. It’s why I keep men as slaves. It’s why I have zero problem calling a man a cunt when he’s acting like one. So when you ask me this question, all you’re really doing is proving my point.