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		By: Lacey Luxe		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2025 23:41:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is utterly fascinating and frankly it explains a lot.  That probably reads like a joke, but I&#039;m not kidding.  This article recontextualizes so much for me.  Surprisingly, I can relate.  I am also very high on cognitive empathy.  Much lower on affective empathy.  Probably lower than most as I am more of a thinker than a feeler.  I don&#039;t necessarily feel what other people&#039;s.  But I understand it.  Then I will relate on some less than emotional level.

I don&#039;t have the desire to do harm.  I have actually invested a lot of effort into being kind.  It sounds like an insult for me to say that in that sense I am your exact opposite.  But it doesn&#039;t sound like you would be offended.  You own that part of yourself which is admirable in a way.  I am all about understanding your strengths and limitations.  What makes you tick.  All of that.  Second Life can be an amazing tool for that.  It&#039;s helped me discover so many things about myself.  

I often imagine perception as a prism.  I turn the prism to see other points of view.  I have never looked through the eyes of a true sadist before.  It raises all kinds of questions.  Of course, on a purely narcissistic it makes me wonder how you&#039;ve seen me for the last year.  I&#039;m that person you pretended to be.  The mask you discarded.

I&#039;ve seen your sadism relatively up close.  It intrigued me.  I recently read your profile.  What you wrote about your slave affected me in surprising ways.  I know there is darkness inside.  Most people never see it.  The few who have know that it is bottomless.  I sometimes wonder about tapping into that as you have.  It was why I joined up at Ascendancy.

You have given me a ton to think about.  What more can you want from a blog post?  I look forward to talking with you about this in the future.  I definitely need more.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is utterly fascinating and frankly it explains a lot.  That probably reads like a joke, but I&#8217;m not kidding.  This article recontextualizes so much for me.  Surprisingly, I can relate.  I am also very high on cognitive empathy.  Much lower on affective empathy.  Probably lower than most as I am more of a thinker than a feeler.  I don&#8217;t necessarily feel what other people&#8217;s.  But I understand it.  Then I will relate on some less than emotional level.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have the desire to do harm.  I have actually invested a lot of effort into being kind.  It sounds like an insult for me to say that in that sense I am your exact opposite.  But it doesn&#8217;t sound like you would be offended.  You own that part of yourself which is admirable in a way.  I am all about understanding your strengths and limitations.  What makes you tick.  All of that.  Second Life can be an amazing tool for that.  It&#8217;s helped me discover so many things about myself.  </p>
<p>I often imagine perception as a prism.  I turn the prism to see other points of view.  I have never looked through the eyes of a true sadist before.  It raises all kinds of questions.  Of course, on a purely narcissistic it makes me wonder how you&#8217;ve seen me for the last year.  I&#8217;m that person you pretended to be.  The mask you discarded.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve seen your sadism relatively up close.  It intrigued me.  I recently read your profile.  What you wrote about your slave affected me in surprising ways.  I know there is darkness inside.  Most people never see it.  The few who have know that it is bottomless.  I sometimes wonder about tapping into that as you have.  It was why I joined up at Ascendancy.</p>
<p>You have given me a ton to think about.  What more can you want from a blog post?  I look forward to talking with you about this in the future.  I definitely need more.</p>
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		By: BigTitPhilosopher		</title>
		<link>https://www.jessandhergentlemen.co.uk/living-sadism/#comment-3165</link>

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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2025 00:01:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Honestly the scariest thing here is how normal it sounds like you’re describing cooking dinner or sumit instead of hurting people.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Honestly the scariest thing here is how normal it sounds like you’re describing cooking dinner or sumit instead of hurting people.</p>
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		By: Dolls_Crush		</title>
		<link>https://www.jessandhergentlemen.co.uk/living-sadism/#comment-3163</link>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2025 03:28:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Not my kink, not my world Jess, but fuck me if it wasn’t fascinating.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not my kink, not my world Jess, but fuck me if it wasn’t fascinating.</p>
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		By: Nocturne08		</title>
		<link>https://www.jessandhergentlemen.co.uk/living-sadism/#comment-3162</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2025 08:01:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[real q
Do u get off more on the screaming or the silence?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>real q<br />
Do u get off more on the screaming or the silence?</p>
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		By: karly buns		</title>
		<link>https://www.jessandhergentlemen.co.uk/living-sadism/#comment-3161</link>

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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2025 14:12:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[ok so like.. real talk, do u see the ppl u hurt as equals or just toys for u to use? not trying to be rude, just wanna know lol]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ok so like.. real talk, do u see the ppl u hurt as equals or just toys for u to use? not trying to be rude, just wanna know lol</p>
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